Time with friends and family

People with strong social relationships live longer[1][13]. Connections and interactions with close others promote health through shaping daily health behavior choices[15][16]. Having close friends may promote brain health as we age[14]. Social contact is one of the most important drivers of subjective well-being[5][6][7][8]. A strong support system will help you manage stress[9]. Social support is associated with increased psychological well-being[12][10] and increased resilience during important life events[10]. In stressful times, social support helps people reduce psychological distress (e.g., anxiety or depression)[11]. People having strong relationships are half as likely to catch a common cold[2]. Lack of social connections can increase your chances of becoming sick through immune system dysregulation[3]. Loneliness can also increase levels of depression, pain, and fatigue[3]. Loneliness accelerates the rate of physiological decline[4]. Studies consistently show increased risk of death among persons with a low quantity, and sometimes low quality, of social relationships[8]. Experimental studies of humans and animals suggest that social isolation is a major risk factor for mortality from widely varying causes[8].

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I have a close friend I can share intimate details with.
I have several friends or family members I meet monthly.
I take initiatives to stay in contact with friends and family.
I try to be a good listener, not judging.
I celebrate events.
I provide help and support in times of need.
From time to time I re-evaluate the role friends play in my life.
I meet people in person rather than just online.
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