Why it is important
Forgiveness is associated with increased physical and mental health and marital satisfaction, whereas blaming and revenge have been found to correlate with poorer mental health, criminality, poor recovery from bereavement and poor health outcomes. Forgiving persons have less anger, anxiety, depression, and hostility. People who forgive generally experience increases in hope and self-esteem. The ability to forgive increases well-being. Forgiveness may produce beneficial effects such as reduced stress, lowered levels of blood pressure and less rumination. Forgiving persons may even perform better on physically challenging tasks.
Resentment and bitterness on the other side consumes energy that could be used for more constructive tasks. Resentments cause us to develop expectations that others in the future will harm us as we have been harmed by people in the past. This can cause us to erect defensive walls that prevent us from developing deep friendships. Unforgiveness keeps us from being reconciled to significant others in our lives. Unforgiveness can cause us to feel guilty for not being willing to let go of our resentment and bitterness.
To forgive is to set a prisoner free and discover that the prisoner was you.
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Category: Emotional healthResearch
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