Sex life

Sexual health is associated with happiness, longevity, and well-being[9]. Sex eases stress levels[1][3][4]. Studies suggest it can improve mood and combat anxiety[4]. It improves sleep[5]. Sex strengthens the immune system[6] which can reduce the number of days you are sick. Research suggests a link between sex and lower blood pressure[8]. Older adults who have sex tend to feel healthier[7]. It can act as exercise and a good sex life helps to keep your estrogen and testosterone levels in balance.

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Me and my partner have intimate healthy, loving sex.
I can talk about sex with my partner.
We are both fine about how frequently we have sex.
The quality of our sex is fine.
We say loving words and express our love regularly.
We can read each other's "sex signals" to know when the other wants sex.
Our sex is fun and playful.
Sex feels natural and I am at ease with my partner.
We know how to become aroused.
We know how both of us can get an orgasm.
We are both attentive in bed.
We never pressure eachother to do things we are not comfortable with.
We maintain physical affection.
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      Research
      • [1] Leuner B, Glasper ER, Gould E (2010) Sexual experience promotes adult neurogenesis in the hippocampus despite an initial elevation in stress hormones. PLoS One 5:e11597. View
      • [2] Chronic stress puts your health at risk - mayoclinic.org. View
      • [3] Ulrich-Lai, Y. M., Christiansen, A. M., Ostrander, M. M., Jones, A. A., Jones, K. R., Choi, D. C., … Herman, J. P. (2010). Pleasurable behaviors reduce stress via brain reward pathways. Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences of the United States of America, 107(47), 20529–20534. doi:10.1073/pnas.1007740107. View
      • [4] Burleson MH, Trevathan WR, Todd M (2007) In the mood for love or vice versa? Exploring the relations among sexual activity, physical affection, affect, and stress in the daily lives of mid-aged women. Arch Sex Behav 2007 Jun; 3(36):357-68 PMID: 17109236. View
      • [5] Paul KN, Turek FW, Kryger MH. (2008) Influence of sex on sleep regulatory mechanisms. Womens Health (Larchmt). 2008 Sep;17(7):1201-8. doi: 10.1089/jwh.2008.0841. Review. PMID: 18710368. View
      • [6] Charnetski CJ, Brennan FX. (2004). Sexual frequency and salivary immunoglobulin A (IgA). Psychological reports, 94(), 839-44. View
      • [7] Lindau ST, Schumm LP, Laumann EO, et al. A Study of Sexuality and Health among Older Adults in the United States. New England Journal of Medicine. 2007;357:762-74. View
      • [8] Brody S. Blood pressure reactivity to stress is better for people who recently had penile-vaginal intercourse than for people who had other or no sexual activity. Biological Psychology, 2006;71:214-22. View
      • [9] Palmore EB. Predictors of the longevity difference: a 25-year follow-up. Gerontologist. 1982;22:513–8.
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