Self-regulation
I resist temptations that are overall bad for me in the long run.
I am able to hold off and not react on impulse.
I monitor and evaluate my own behaviour.
I have goals and values that helps me decide if I need to moderate myself.
I avoid temptatations by being good at planning.
I seek to make it more fun to do the boring things I have to do.
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Private notes on 'self-regulation'
Effective self-regulation can be recognized as an important key to success in life[1][12][17]. People with self-control are more effective[2][12]. They have better grades in school[13][16]. They have better relationships with family and friends[14], less conflict and more cohesion[15]. They are better at understanding others and score higher on empathy. They show better psychological adjustment[18], including fewer psychological problems, fewer signs of serious psychopathology[18], and higher self-esteem[2]. Supervisors who score higher in self-control are rated more favorably (e.g., as fairer) by their subordinates[3]. People with high self-control make better relationship partners, especially because they are better able to adapt to partners[4][5][6]. Prudent people live longer[8] are more positive[9] are less likely to have antisocial personality disorder[10][11]. Deficient self-control on the other hand is the single most important key to understanding criminality[7].
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